Saturday, November 13, 2010

Why Are Jerks So Sexy?

Last night, at drinks with friends, the conversation steered towards what we look for in (shock horror) men. 'Has to wear skinny leg jeans.' 'Can't wear skinny leg jeans.' 'Needs to be intelligent.' 'Must have good taste in music.' 'Has to be really fun.' Were some of the requests on the wish list. And then there was this one, 'He has to be a little bit of a jerk,' Tiff said. 'Everybody likes a good old, elusive boy.'

Strangely enough, I completely agreed with her. We like to play the game. If a guy is too nice, too sweet, too perfect, just TOO available it takes the fun out of it all. We don't want you handed to us on a silver platter. Let's play some god damn games! Unobtainable is hot. But then, here comes the hypocrisy of it all - it's a fine line between an elusive jerk who keeps us on our toes and a down right dick head. Sure I want to play the game but I don't want to be treated like shit either. I guess LITTLE bit of a jerk, is the key thing. We don't want a fully fledged douche bag. And as for those boys who are just too perfect, can you get back to us when we're in our late twenties and over the bullshit? 

Welcome to the complicated, contradictory world of women! How do you like your boys? Small, medium or large jerk? Or no jerk whatsoever?

Kourtney Kardashian and her super-sized jerk.

1 comment:

  1. You're so right, not sure why but I love a little bit of jerk. Hard to get makes you want them even more.


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